When the Russians put
the first SPUTNIK satellite into orbit, the US and its NATO allies discovered to
their horror that the Communist countries had better educational systems and were
producing more scientists, engineers and doctors than the West. The Western
governments responded by pouring money into education. Many new universities were established, students
recruited and were offered generous student loans.
The University of Waterloo
was born in that era. When I arrived on campus, construction companies were
still at work, putting on the finishing touches. The secretary in the Admissions
office pulled out my file and checked it over.
“You
have all the requirements to be admitted as an adult student. Unfortunately
your application came too late. We can only admit 480 students in the first
year. We have a bottleneck in the drafting classroom, it can take only 120
students and the four classes are full.” she told me. “Drafting course? I am a draftsman, it is my
job, I don’t need to learn drafting again” I told her.
She
called her boss. He read my application. “You
finished college in Czechoslovakia and I see that you went to a night school, took
calculus, physics, English and history courses and passed with A’s. Was it difficult?” “It was
not easy but I studied hard and managed” I lied.
OK, we will make an exception, you don’t have
to take the drafting course. Congratulations, you are accepted into the Faculty
of Mechanical Engineering as an adult student. See you in September.” he said.
I was stunned. I could
not believe my ears. I would be going to university.
I was slowly getting
used to the fact that I would be going to university when I received bad news. “I
think I am pregnant” my girlfriend Margo told me. I was shocked, what
should I do? The worst part was telling her parents. Don, Margo’s father, took
it well, remembering his army days.
“Knocking
up a girl, I thought you were smarter. Don’t say anything to my wife yet, she
may take it really hard. I will talk to her first,” he told me.
But Margo’s mother
Jill took it with an English stiff upper lip and started to sort things out. “You should get married, the sooner the
better. The United Church minister in Shallow Lake is a good friend of mine. I am
sure he will marry you. And you, Jerry, should go to university. It will be
hard but you can do it. Margo can stay home. You need a degree for better life.
Look what happened to us. Don was a medic in the army. He wanted to be a doctor
after he was discharged. We moved to Ontario and he was accepted into the
medical school at Mc Master University. Unfortunately he met some army buddies
and they spent too much time playing cards. He failed the first year and took a
job as a drug salesman. He likes his job but he is on the road all the time.
What kind of family life is that?”
My head was spinning, getting
married, becoming a father, I could not imagine that kind of life. Until now I
had been in charge of my life, suddenly I became a spectator. A wedding date
was set, a couple of friends were invited and I listened to lectures about
family life.
Then Margo got sick
and went to see a doctor. She came back with surprising news. “I have German measles. It is very dangerous
during pregnancy. There is a big chance the baby would be born retarded. The
doctor recommended to have an abortion
and I agreed. ”
Suddenly my life took yet
another turn and my memory is fuzzy about what followed. There was no reason
for a naive, eighteen-year-old high school girl to get married. Her mother
always stressed education and could stop the wedding. Instead she allowed her daughter
to head into unpredictable future with only a high school diploma. I didn’t
mind, getting married, it would be better than lonely university life.
Happy or petrified ? |
So
the marriage went ahead and we spent the wedding night at the Chalmers’ hobby
farm. On Monday Margo went back home to go to school and I stayed in the boarding
house. We enjoyed married life on the weekends at the farm. On the last day of
school Margo created a sensation in her class, wearing a wedding ring. Shot gun marriage, she is pregnant, was the
verdict. But months went by and she stayed slim. Eventually the busy-bodies blamed
the wedding on an eccentric English mother. We started out married life in a
couple of rented rooms and I remember watching men landing on the moon on a
small black and white TV.
I had no knowledge of
university life and was in for a surprise. Most lectures were in big halls,
professors speaking with different accents, not giving a damn whether students
grasped their lecture or not. Lectures in calculus, physics, chemistry,
electronics, labs and more were being pounded into my brain. Fortunately there
were other adult students so a few of us stuck together. We were an odd group.
Harindar was a Hindu, smart as a whip. Lewis was a draft dodger from Alabama,
slowly falling behind. Two gay students joined us because we didn’t care about
their sexual orientation. I was hanging on to Harindars’ shirt tails, copying
home assignments from him.
The midterm exams came and I knew that I would
probably fail. But it was important to pass because their marks counted in the
term average. So I made couple of cheaters, small pieces of paper covered with
formulas we were supposed to know. In my old country, cheaters were fair game, at
exams, almost everybody used them. Many were very elaborate and tricky; some
girls would write formulas high on their legs, under a skirt where it was a
taboo for the teacher to look.
In my class were twin brothers
Molnars from Slovakia. They had spent two years at the University of Bratislava
and I was impressed how smart they were. Some calculus problem I spent hours trying
to solve they figured out in couple of minutes. They had a complete contempt
for our university. “Even high school at
home is more difficult than this kindergarten”. I passed my final exams and
managed to squeak through the first term. I noticed on the posted sheet that
Molnar names were missing. They had flunked the term.
I had more confidence going
into the second term, knowing that I could manage. Our class was much smaller,
many students had dropped out because school was too hard for them or they
spent time partying instead of going to lectures. The Molnars were allowed to
rewrite some exams and were back in the class. But their attitude hasn’t
changed, they blamed flunking the term on prejudiced professors. This term some
courses were elective so I picked up a few that were easier to reduce my load.
Also there was another big change, all exams were open book and my cheating
days were over. I passed the term and the Molnars flunked again, vanishing from
the university.
Engineering was a
co-op program, each four month school term was followed by a four months work
with jobs in various companies. It was a good system, allowing students to get
practical work experience in the engineering field and make some money. However
it meant that we were moving every four months. It was particularly hard on my
inexperienced wife, trying to find a job knowing that it would last less than
four months. Eventually she found steady work in Kitchener and stayed there
while I moved to my jobs.
Four and a half years in the university went by
with lightning speed. I wrote my last exam and it was time to look for a job.
The wall in the engineering building was plastered with lists of companies that
had job openings and students were signing up for interviews. One of the
companies was Alcan. I still remembered the film I had seen some six years ago
at Wright Engineers about the Kitimat Project so I signed up for an interview.
“We have job openings in Arvida, Kingston and
Toronto” the interviewer told me, giving a description of each job. I
was not really interested. “ How about
Kitimat? You wouldn’t have a job there?” I asked. He checked his papers
again. “Unfortunately we don’t. Why would
you like to work in Kitimat? It is up in northern British Columbia, a hardship
post. Not many people like it there.” I
told him about the film. He chuckled.
“You saw one of those propaganda films
commissioned by Alcan”. The interview was over; he wished me good luck,
knowing that I was not interested in his jobs.
I had many job
interviews, the most interesting was with the Iron Company of Canada in Wabush,
Labrador. I flew there in the company’s
aging turboprop plane. The airport in Labrador City was fogged in but the pilot
was determined to land. The plane was descending, circling, then suddenly
motors started to roar and we were in a steep climb. It happened few times,
making everybody nervous. “Don’t
worry, we have a very experienced pilot, he flew a bomber in the war” said
the stewardess, trying to calm the passengers. “Well, tell him the war finished thirty years ago. He doesn’t carry
bombs any more, just a bunch of scared passengers. Next time when I go on this
plane I want a parachute” half-joked
one passenger. The job at the Wabush
mine was very interesting and if it was offered to me, I decided I would take
it.
“The man
from Alcan that interviewed you called. He wants you to call him right away” my wife told me. I was wondering why he
called. He knew that I was not interested in his jobs.